The Boyle Heights neighborhood in Los Angeles is known as
the gang capital of the world. It
is estimated that over 1,100 gangs with 86,000 gang members live in Los Angeles
County alone. Twenty years ago,
Gregory Boyle, a Jesuit priest, decided to make this his home. Why? Because the love of Christ compelled him.[1]
He tells the story of Rigo, a brash 15 year-old whom Boyle
met in a detention center. Rigo
recalled the day that he was sent home from school and was surprised to find
his father there. His dad, a
heroin addict, was never there.
“Why did they send you home?” his father asked. Scared of being beaten, Rigo replied,
“If I tell you, do you promise you won’t hit me?” “I’m your father, of course I’m not gonna hit you,” his dad
said. So Rigo told him.
Immediately Rigo started to cry, unable to continue. The cry turned into a wail and Boyle
put his arm around the boy as he rocked back and forth, inconsolable. “He beat me with a pipe. . . with . . .
a pipe.” Boyle could only hold
him, saying nothing, entering with him into unthinkable sorrow, pain and
betrayal.
“And your mom?” Boyle asked as Rigo regained his composure. Rigo’s face lit up and he stopped
crying. “My mom, there’s no one
like her,” Rigo said. Capturing a
thought and then continuing, “I’ve been locked up for more than a year and a
half and my mom comes to see me every Sunday. You know how many buses she takes every Sunday to see my
sorry a#@?”
Once again, Rigo began to cry uncontrollably. Gasping through his tears he said,
“Seven buses. She takes . . .
seven . . . buses. Imagine.”
It took seven buses to reach this broken teenager. It took seven buses to bridge the
terrible gap that existed between this young man’s heart and the love of
God. It took seven buses to show
this wounded child that he was worthy of care and compassion.
How many buses will it take to reach the disinterested youth
in your neighborhood? You may not
live in Boyle Heights but the pain and abandonment of teenagers is just as real
in the suburbs. How many buses
will it take to reach the millions of Catholic teenagers who continue to be
uninspired and indifferent to the formation they’ve received? Whether kids were raised Catholic,
Protestant or with no religion at all, Young Life has found no easier way to
reach disinterested kids than to follow in the footsteps of the Savior himself,
to “take on flesh and move into the neighborhood.”[2]
Like Jesuit father Greg Boyle, we know that we cannot
continue to ask kids to come to us.
We must go to them. We must
move into the neighborhood. We
need to earn the right to be heard.
There are millions of kids out there just like Rigo, never knowing the
love of the Father, who are waiting, just waiting to see just how many buses
we’d take to show up in their neighborhood and show them that we truly care.
Our
young people today, six or eight-million in the high school age alone, are
waiting, waiting for somebody to care about them like Christ did. I mean there are six or eight-million
in our nation that nobody has ever talked to about Jesus Christ, that nobody
has ever said a prayer for, that nobody has ever cared about. There are millions of them in our own
nation, and they are waiting for somebody to care about them enough to take the
time and trouble to pour out compassion on them, to prove their friendship, to
bridge this tragic and terrible gap that exists in our culture between teenagers
and adults.[3]
This story is an awesome reminder of the impact we can make by stretching ourselves a bit, getting uncomfortable, and going beyond the normality of the day in order to begin the ripple effect of God's love in a young person's life. When a compassion runs so deep inside our hearts and our minds that a mentality of "whatever it takes" becomes the new normal inside ourselves.
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Daryn
Thanks Daryn for your inspiring outlook on doing "whatever it takes" to reach kids. There's no doubt about it, the work of evangelization, particularly with young people today, requires us to step out of our comfort zone and into the harrowing world of kids. You'd think it wouldn't be so hard at our age but there is nothing more nerve-wracking than showing up to a football game and meandering your way into the student section, praying desperately that someone, anyone, responds to your efforts. I think God planned it that way - it keeps us humble, knowing that we really need Him!
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